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C ommunio . . .  April 22, 2007 
To strengthen our shared life in Christ
through mutual participation and the free exchange of ideas.

Community of St. Malachi, 2459 Washington Avenue, Cleveland, Ohio 44113-2380. www.stmalachi.org

 

Communio Archive

Has the Community Run Its’ Course?

     (Thanks to Ron Perger for sending this in. A little background on Ron: Ron Perger has been a member of the community since 1983. He has served on community council three times and served as President in the early 90’s. Ron has also worked with Christian Formation for much of the past 20+ years, most recently working with Kevin Aylward for the past eight years teaching Jr. High Christian Formation.)


 ° Has the Community Run Its’ Course?

 ° Five Men around a Kitchen Table on Friday Mornings

 ° Remembering Dave

I was recently asked by Paul Kunkel to consider a run for Community Council for the upcoming year. After praying and discussing it with my wife, I decided that there were bigger issues than a simple council election. That issue is, “Is the Community still a relevant entity?”

As we progress down this garden path called “clustering,” I can’t help but think that the community has run its course. Long gone are those activists who took up the cause of Vatican II; migrant workers, lettuce and grape boycotts, lay leadership, and a strong voice in the diocese. In the past 10 years we, (the community council) have let the pastor become the community leader rather than council president.

As we sat at clustering meetings it was evident that whatever suggestion we may have had was already decided between the pastor and the diocese. It was a futile waste of time. We were being placated and duped to think our opinions mattered. Much like we were in the pastoral selection process 15 years ago.

Our forbearers such as Gen McCloskey and Tony Dinardo would chide us for getting ourselves into this situation. They, along with others, set the standard for a lay-directed community. The priest serves as presider at Mass and as authority regarding doctrine and matters of the church, all other decisions are made by the community council where everyone has a voice but one vote. I feel as though we have let this idea slip away and ceded control to the pastor.

This is not an indictment of our pastor. Fr. Tony is a good and honorable servant of the church. It seems as a governing body, council has become so conciliatory that the parish and community have more or less blended into one. If this is what the majority of the community members want, than so be it. But I think we should vote on it.

Unfortunately, many of our “elders” are tired and have served on council numerous times. They now want to turn over the community to the next generation. This next generation does not remember how groups like the community originated. Active Catholics, who love their church and wanted to embrace the reforms of Vatican II, founded them. These communities dragged the diocese into the reforms of Vatican II kicking and screaming by our example. I now see a more conservative generation, some actually embracing pre-Vatican II forms of worship. From my observation, I find this generation more compliant, more willing to accept the status quo without question or opposition. And in fairness, many are too busy raising families to be activists.

Maybe, its time to celebrate the gift of almost 50 years of the Community of St. Malachi. A community that empowered hundreds of people to as St. Francis said, “Go and spread the Gospel, and if necessary, use words.” The fire of the Holy Spirit has touched us all – maybe its time to spread our gospel. I am speaking my opinion to open a dialogue. I look forward to see where we move from this point forward.  

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Five Men around a Kitchen Table on Friday Mornings
    
by 
Bill Jacob

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(Bill is with the Friday Morning Men’s Retreat Group and wrote this on April 4, 2007.)

Abba, father, five Christian men gather (usually) around a kitchen table every other Friday morning. They are men whose lives you’ve touched and keep drawing back to the kitchen. Some, like me, are surprised because I didn’t expect to be drawn in, so closely or deeply.

Now, because of the mysteries of a men’s retreat, held a year and a half ago, we embrace and call each other, brother.

What a wonderful, yet inexplicable experience embracing someone is for me, especially another man. I do not embrace easily nor do I accept an embrace, easily. And, rarely do I call another man, brother. But here I am, 16 months later embracing men and hearing myself calling those sitting with me around a kitchen table, brother.

Why? I am not entirely sure. Putting this question aside and raising one that I can answer; Is it because I feel your presence, Father, at the center of this fellowship?

Dare I recognize and accept your presence as you become more apparent to me each time we meet? Dare I trust myself in the presence of others as you unfold yourself in the stories and prayers we share.

We have come to enjoy talking together about our journey with you. Sitting around the kitchen table listening affirms and reaffirms our faith and desire to face the challenges your life presents; challenges that give life its meaning.

Each Friday builds on the last. Over time the telling of our stories has become discernment of the “great I am.” It is discernment from which Immanuel (God with us) is discovered in the hearing.

From this kind of sharing and prayer, around a kitchen table, trust emerges that frees and enables me to embrace a man whom I now call brother and in that same embrace calls me, brother.

I thank you, Abba, for enriching each of us in a fellowship where discernment of Christ, around a kitchen table, is why we get together. My prayer: that neither our stories nor the journey we take together become garbled or wearisome. Amen.

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Remembering Dave
     by Barbara Starre, His Widow

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To all at St. Malachi:

Tomorrow, April 23, marks the one year anniversary of Dave’s spirit transcending to new heights. There is not a day that passes that I do not miss his wonderful laughter and love for life. My life here on this planet continues and my focus is to do all I can to help people, especially children, fall in love with the Earth. Children are our hope for the future and in order to heal ourselves we must learn to live in harmony with the wonderful planet God created for us. I will be training in a method of living for the Earth called permaculture, which expends the least amount of human energy while taking the entire environment into consideration. Planting not only for people but for all of creation is part of permaculture philosophy.

You are all invited to come to walk the land on trails Dave and I created around Starre’s Acres. Bring children to play among the large ledges and wade in the ever-flowing creek. Pack a picnic lunch or dinner and enjoy dining out in the natural world. No need to make reservations; just call to let me know you are coming: 330-239-1217 or barbarastarre@aol.com.

Dave and I always felt that we were only caretakers of this beautiful piece of land and we both wanted to share it with as many people as possible. St. Malachi’s was a place where Dave felt the love and spirit of community. He loved you all so very much and I will be eternally grateful for all your prayers and support during the difficult times of Dave’s illness. I want to share some of the words our two oldest granddaughters spoke at Dave’s memorial service:

“Grandpa always reached for the stars and strove for success. He was a go-getter, always determined to achieve what it was that he wanted to accomplish. He used his God-given talents to do great but ordinary things, bringing joy and laughter to many people’s lives. He was a great one to laugh and a great one to love. Someone who enjoyed life, who had fun with life, and who shared his life generously with others.” {Hannah Marie Starre, age 17}

“Just two weeks ago during Easter Sunday, my family and I were eating dinner at my grandparents’ house. During the end of the meal, my grandpa turned to me and said, ‘Although it is very hard sometimes, I try my best to stay positive…to think, talk, and listen all positively…that’s the key.’ And just like Grandpa would want, you must dwell on the positive. Just think. He’s free of cancer. Free of pain. He’s playing cards, swinging golf clubs, hitting baseballs. Smiling and laughing, he’s watching over everyone he loves here on Earth. He’s an angel and I know he already has his wings. I love you Grandpa.” {Mary Noell (Starre) Guide, age 15.}

Happy Spring to all of you. Love and Peace, Barbara Starre.

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