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* * * * * The Malachi File It looks like summer is finally here – or at least, last week it did – and activity will no doubt slow down around Malachi’s, as it usually does. That will probably be welcomed by many in leadership positions, as it’s been a busy spring. I’m going to spend most of this month’s column on a couple of computer topics, but first… A big congratulations for Fr. Tony on the occasion of his silver anniversary (that’s 25 years for those like me who need to be reminded of what "silver" signifies) of his ordination to the priesthood. There’s a Mass of Thanksgiving scheduled for 2 p.m. today, followed by a reception in the school hall. Come one, come all. On the computer front, this has been a busy spring for those strange souls who write computer viruses. You may have seen the article in the Plain Dealer on May 27 about the Klez virus, which is an especially nasty one. It’s bad enough to know it’s out there, but the worse news is, it infected some computers in our St. Malachi universe. If you have a computer, you can’t live without anti-virus protection anymore. The way this one works is, if you open the attachment, it infects the computer and sends itself by e-mail to people in your address book. This sounds like the "I Love You" virus of a year or so ago, but it’s worse. This one changes the "From" line to random addresses from that same list, and also changes the "Subject" line and the message. Many people have gotten replies from other computer systems saying they had sent the virus, but they hadn’t. It was generated by the infected machine with a false return address. And it gets worse than that, the Klez virus can damage files on your computer. I understand that you are especially susceptible if you are running Microsoft Outlook or Outlook Express, which many people do – these are the most popular e-mail programs besides AOL – but I’ve been told it can effect other e-mail programs as well (but not AOL). I’ve read that some versions of Klez are even set to cause computer damage on the 13th of even numbered months, so if you suspect you might have it, check today’s date, and take action soon. What to do? Three things. First, if you are using Microsoft Internet Explorer, go to the Microsoft Update web page – in my version of IE, I go to the Tools menu and it’s the third item down – and run any "critical" updates. Install them directly from the Microsoft site. Note that you don’t have to upgrade to a higher level of Internet Explorer or Outlook Express. Then, you can go to the Symantec web site (the company that makes the Norton Anti-Virus program, it’s at www.symantec.com) or one like it, and get a small program that will tell you if you have the Klez virus and then will fix it. Finally, update your anti-virus files, and if you don’t have an anti-virus program, get one soon. If you have a computer, you can’t live without anti-virus protection anymore. Both the Norton and McAfee programs are good. After that, run the anti-virus program on all your hard drives. Another suggestion: if you are running Outlook Express, turn off the "Preview Pane." That’s the area on the lower right below the list of messages that shows you what the messages look like before you open them. It won’t be long before some virus exploits this and launches just by being previewed. Go to the View menu, go down to Layout, and uncheck "Show preview pane." After awhile, you won’t miss it. I know I don’t. Lastly, follow the basic advice you’ve seen here many times before: Don’t open any attachments unless you know exactly what they are, even if they are from people you know and trust. Make a phone call if you’re not sure. If you can’t back up your whole system, at least copy any important files you have created to some kind of a disk, and don’t forget your address book and favorites. Also don’t believe any virus warnings you get by e-mail, especially if it urges you to forward it to everyone you know. Here’s one tip if you want e-mail without the hassle of a computer. The MailStation device being offered in many stores and on the internet is a pretty good alternative. It doesn’t allow you to do all the things you can do with a computer, but if you only want to exchange short messages with people, MailStation does the job. The accompanying service from Earthlink is $10 a month, which is pretty reasonable. Depending on features, the device costs from $30 to $200. Have a good summer, everybody. We’ll be back with an issue of Communio on July 14th; deadline June 30th. Thanks to Chris Schenk, Mike Graham, Helen Brinich, Cindy DiNardo, Fr. Tony, Hal Place and the St. Malachi Spirituality Committee for submitting material this month. — Dan Alaimo * * * * * Recommendations For Policy On Sexual Abuse Of Minors (Chris Schenk, of FutureChurch, sent this to us with these words: "Hi folks! Here is a copy of recommendations developed by national Call to Action with input from FutureChurch. The FutureChurch board voted unanimously to support these recommendations and they have been sent to Bishop Pilla and all of Cleveland’s bishops as well as the Denihan commission with the request that they support these in Dallas [at the United States Catholic Conference of Bishops June 13-15] and consider them for implementation in Cleveland. Also, two members from FutureChurch – Karen Leith and myself – will be present in Dallas. Keep us and the Bishops in your prayers.") Introduction Call To Action is submitting the following recommendations to support efforts to restore confidence and trust in our Church, which has been so eroded by the revelations of clergy sexual abuse of minors over the past several months. We do this out of love and respect for the thousands of lay ministers, religious and priests who serve faithfully in our parishes, in ministries working with the most poor and marginalized of our society and in communities of Latin America and other third world countries. We believe that all the people of the Church share responsibility to bring about healing for past victims of clergy sexual abuse and to do everything humanly possible to prevent future victimization. The recommendations contained here are ones that attempt to address some of the serious flaws in policies, structures, and procedures that were illuminated by the current series of scandals. These recommendations are not meant to be understood as a comprehensive statement of policies and procedures required to handle sexual abuse cases. There are several dioceses in the United States that adopted the policy recommendations made by the Bishops’ Conference in 1992 and developed improved structures and procedures. The recommendations contained here are ones that attempt to address some of the serious flaws in policies, structures, and procedures that were illuminated by the current series of scandals. These recommendations were specifically written to address cases of sexual abuse of minors by Catholic clergy. However, with some adaptations, they could also be applied to other Catholic Church personnel who are accused of sexual abuse of a minor. Immediate Steps To Restore Diocesan Sexual Abuse Every diocese should incorporate the following policies and procedures into their official sexual abuse policies and practices:
On A National Level On a national level we make the following recommendations:
Additional Steps Additional steps bishops ought to take to demonstrate their commitment to justice for victims of sexual abuse by priests: Acknowledge the suffering of the victims no matter how long ago the abuse took place.
(Included in the e-mail we received was this information about Call To Action: "Call To Action is a national organization of 25,000 laity, religious, priests and bishops with its national office in Chicago. It has 40 local chapters and advocates for reforms in the Catholic Church such as the ordination of women, optional celibacy for priests, more focus on the church’s social justice teaching, and consultation with the Catholic people on church decision-making and human sexuality. Special Appeal: Take action on sex abuse cover-up! Join Call To Action. Feel free to make copies of these recommendations. Lobby your bishop. For more information, to request materials or to join: CALL TO ACTION, 2135 W. Roscoe Chicago, IL 60618; e-mail: cta@cta-usa.org; website: http://www.cta-usa.org; phone (773) 404-0004 or, toll free, (866) CTA-HOPE.") * * * * * A Conversation By Internet (This conversation in cyberspace between Mike Graham and David took place over a month ago. It begins with a reference to an article entitled "Let’s Move Forward," written for May’s edition of Communio by Ron Perger. In it Ron exhorts us to "re-embrace Vatican II and push for Vatican III." Our thanks to Mike for sending this in.) Mike: Hi David! This is what I love as Ron is asking for the beginning of true dialog. David: I can take it if you can. Mike: I’m not sure what you mean by that. I think Gandhi and Jesus would be proud of us dialoging instead of fist fighting. I for one am no longer going to be part of the silent majority. David: From my reading of various Catholic periodicals, I would not have imagined this point of view to be a silent one. Mike: I agree with you. I also read The National Catholic Reporter, Sunday Visitor, St. Anthony Messenger, Fr. Richard Rohr articles and tapes, etc. I agree with you, we need to be well read. I’m tired of reading about parishes all over the USA without a priest to minister. David: Me too. Here in the Diocese of Arlington, we ordained 23 new priests in two years. In a slow year, we ordain at least four or six new priests. Where the Catholic faith is truthfully and enthusiastically preached, vocations flourish. Where they pray to "God our Mother," it’s a different story. Mike: I’m actually happy to hearere this is going on somewhere in our country. This is great and I’m really happy to hear this. Thank you for this input. I have a priest friend who goes to three different parishes each Sunday to say mass and if he can’t make it, oh well – the people go without a liturgy. You know we have had married priests, bishops, and at times popes in the Roman Catholic Church ‘till the 12th century. David: The celibate state as the ideal dated back to apostolic times. This was true even in the East, where by the end of the first millennium, bishops were chosen from the ranks of monastic, who were celibate. In the case of married priests, they were expected to refrain from relations with their wives the night before offering sacrifice. This is why the eastern churches did not develop a tradition of daily Mass as we did in the West. Mike: We currently have married priests in Africa because the culture will not allow it otherwise. David: Even Pius XII allowed for the ordination of a number of former Lutheran priests. There are married priests of the Latin rite functioning all over the world, some by legitimate exception, some by local prelates looking the other way or being otherwise helpless to stop the practice. By the way, we’d also have to support their families. You have a plan for that? Mike: I’m glad you asked. My dad had the same comment. If you have a parish with say 500 families and they gave 3% of there pay – not the 10% that was always asked at my parish when I was growing up – and if the family income were $40,000.00, which is average today, that would net out to $600,000. I think a parish could afford two or three married or unmarried priests. Just think if they gave 8%; that would be $1,600,000. We had married priests and single and married women as priests in the underground church during the 1960’s-1970’s in the eastern block countries. David: The women who were acting as priests would have been ordained invalidly. They could not have validly consecrated the Eucharist, or heard confessions. Nothing about the desperation of the situation would have changed that. Did you think these attempts were anything new? The history of the Church is full of such attempts by numerous sects, some dating back to the fourth century. All such attempts were condemned. Mike: I’m sorry but it is time to refill the church with married priests. David: Really? Ever talk to one? If you did, you would know that many of them are not enthusiastic about others joining them. One is Father Ray Ryland, who has spoken at the University of Steubenville a number of times. He was an Episcopal priest, who was "conditionally" ordained with the approval of the Holy See, under the terms of the "Pastoral Provision." His wife has been particularly outspoken against the idea. A friend of mine is an Episcopal Benedictine priest who counsels clergy of various confessions – Catholic, Orthodox, Episcopal, and others. He is adamant that, in every case, either the ministry or the marriage suffers. There are thousands of former priests out there waiting to be called back. Mike: There are thousands of former priests out there waiting to be called back. David: Some of them are already coming back. Whether they can continue to function depends. Tradition can make allowances for married men being ordained. Once ordained, however, they cannot marry, as has been the case when the wife of a priest dies. Mike: I’d like all parishes to have more than one or two priests. They can be celibate and they can be married. Some how I don’t think Peter, Paul, John, Thomas and the rest of the apostles would care either way. David: What is your basis for such a claim? Mike: The Apostles were all married men. Grant you, not St. Paul. I have no problem if the priests are married or not. I just want to see more people in ministry. Blessings to you again. David: And to you as well. Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Let us pray for each other. Mike: Mike Graham: no longer silent! David: D.L.A.: no longer silent either! — Mike Graham * * * * * A Reason For Concern (The following two articles made it to us just as we were putting the finishing touches on this month’s issue. They both reflect deeply felt concern and we are pleased that we are able to present them to you.)
From Helen Brinich From Helen Brinich I have been a volunteer at Malachi Mart for about 7 years. During this time Bonnie Mar has been the store’s manager. Besides running it as a business, Bonnie has made the Mart a visible and valuable ministry of St. Malachi. She has been ably assisted in this by Jaqui Welker in the past few years. I know what they mean. I have kept coming back each week for many years now, not because the work is particularly appealing or because the surroundings are comfortable and attractive, but because I feel I am in a graced atmosphere. Very often I have heard customers say "I love this store," or "I like to come here." I know what they mean. I have kept coming back each week for many years now, not because the work is particularly appealing or because the surroundings are comfortable and attractive, but because I feel I am in a graced atmosphere. I like being there. Everyone who comes in is treated with respect and made to feel welcome, no matter the size of his or her purchase. Customers regularly share their good news and sometimes claim a little sympathy for their disappointments. Bonnie is largely responsible for the Mart being a blessing to the people of the neighborhood. When I came to work last Thursday I was shocked when I was told that Bonnie isn’t with us anymore. Put more bluntly, she was fired without advance notice, and given two weeks severance pay. Apparently the Board wants to do things differently at the Mart. It is understandable that there might be differences between the manager who is in the field, doing the job, and a Board that has theories about how it should be done. Surely these problems could be resolved if they are approached patiently and with good will. It is outrageous that Bonnie should be precipitately pitched after all her years of service. This is not the way Christians behave. The Community of St. Malachi is, and always has been, very much involved with the Center. Its members deserve to know that an injustice has been done to someone who has served us well. — Helen Brinich
From Cindy DiNardo For the past ten days I have been wrestling with the proper response to recent events at Malachi Mart and St. Malachi Center. Part of me wants to take the easy way out and just pull away from all involvement. Another part of me is very angry and wants to find a way to punish those that I think are wrong. Still another part is counseling caution and patience. In some way, I hear my late dear husband’s voice saying, "Don’t quit. You can’t help anything by pulling out." Thankfully, that last part prevented me from saying what I was thinking last week when I learned that Bonnie Mar had been fired from her job as Manager at Malachi Mart. That advice was confirmed as I listened to Father Jim O’Donnell’s presentation at the FutureChurch gathering on June 2. As always, Jim’s sincere spiritual message urged love where there is anger, patience where there is hastiness, and a willingness to bear with the hurts that come from being committed to others. My deepest sorrow, aside from my concern for Bonnie’s welfare, is the possible loss of Malachi Mart as a face of the Church to those who never encounter Church in a formal, institutional way. At a time when the credibility of the Catholic Church is severely threatened, it seems even more important to continue the atmosphere of welcoming inclusiveness that has been the Mart’s hallmark since its inception. While I do not dispute the legitimacy of the Center’s oversight and administration of Mart business, I do resent the manner in which this decision was conceived, planned, and carried out. It is demeaning to the staff and volunteers of the Mart, to the Center, and to all of us who have worked so hard to make both those entities viable presences in our city. Cindy DiNardo (Cindy and her husband Tony were instrumental in establishing Malachi Mart.) * * * * * The Church And The Internet: Part Two (Father Tony directed our attention to two recent articles found at the Vatican website – www.vatican.va – whose subject is the internet. Here we present part two of the first of these articles. Our thanks to Father Tony.)Opportunities And Challenges "Communication in and by the Church is essentially communication of the Good News of Jesus Christ. It is the proclamation of the Gospel as a prophetic, liberating word to the men and women of our times; it is testimony, in the face of radical secularization, to divine truth and to the transcendent destiny of the human person; it is witness given in solidarity with all believers against conflict and division, to justice and communion among peoples, nations, and cultures." Since announcing the Good News to people formed by a media culture requires taking carefully into account the special characteristics of the media themselves, the Church now needs to understand the internet. This is necessary in order to communicate effectively with people – especially young people – who are steeped in the experience of this new technology, and also in order to use it well. The internet offers people direct and immediate access to important religious and spiritual resources. The media offer important benefits and advantages from a religious perspective: "They carry news and information about religious events, ideas, and personalities; they serve as vehicles for evangelization and catechesis. Day in and day out, they provide inspiration, encouragement, and opportunities for worship to persons confined to their homes or to institutions." But over and above these, there also are benefits more or less peculiar to the internet. It offers people direct and immediate access to important religious and spiritual resources – great libraries and museums and places of worship, the teaching documents of the Magisterium, the writings of the Fathers and Doctors of the Church and the religious wisdom of the ages. It has a remarkable capacity to overcome distance and isolation, bringing people into contact with like-minded persons of good will who join in virtual communities of faith to encourage and support one another. The Church can perform an important service to Catholics and non-Catholics alike by the selection and transmission of useful data in this medium. The internet is relevant to many activities and programs of the Church – evangelization, including both re-evangelization and new evangelization and the traditional missionary work ad gentes, catechesis and other kinds of education, news and information, apologetics, governance and administration, and some forms of pastoral counseling and spiritual direction. Although the virtual reality of cyberspace cannot substitute for real interpersonal community, the incarnational reality of the sacraments and the liturgy, or the immediate and direct proclamation of the gospel, it can complement them, attract people to a fuller experience of the life of faith, and enrich the religious lives of users. It also provides the Church with a means for communicating with particular groups – young people and young adults, the elderly and home-bound, persons living in remote areas, the members of other religious bodies – who otherwise may be difficult to reach. A growing number of parishes, dioceses, religious congregations, and church-related institutions, programs, and organizations of all kinds now make effective use of the internet for these and other purposes. Creative projects under Church sponsorship exist in some places on the national and regional levels. The Holy See has been active in this area for several years and is continuing to expand and develop its internet presence. Church-related groups that have not yet taken steps to enter cyberspace are encouraged to look into the possibility of doing so at an early date. We strongly recommend the exchange of ideas and information about the internet among those with experience in the field and those who are newcomers. The Church also needs to understand and use the internet as a tool of internal communications. This requires keeping clearly in view its special character as a direct, immediate, interactive, and participatory medium. Already, the two-way interactivity of the internet is blurring the old distinction between those who communicate and those who receive what is communicated, and creating a situation in which, potentially at least, everyone can do both. This is not the one-way, top-down communication of the past. As more and more people become familiar with this characteristic of the internet in other areas of their lives, they can be expected also to look for it in regard to religion and the Church. The faithful are not only able but sometimes obliged "to manifest their opinion on those things which pertain to the good of the Church." Communio et Progressio remarked that as a "living body" the Church "needs public opinion in order to sustain a giving and taking among her members." The technology is new, but the idea is not. Vatican Council II said members of the Church should disclose to their pastors "their needs and desires with that liberty and confidence which befits children of God and brothers of Christ"; in fact, according to knowledge, competence, or position, the faithful are not only able but sometimes obliged "to manifest their opinion on those things which pertain to the good of the Church." Communio et Progressio remarked that as a "living body" the Church "needs public opinion in order to sustain a giving and taking among her members." Although truths of faith "do not leave room for arbitrary interpretations," the pastoral instruction noted "an enormous area where members of the Church can express their views." Similar ideas are expressed in the Code of Canon Law 28 as well as in more recent documents of the Pontifical Council for Social Communications. Aetatis Novae calls two-way communication and public opinion "one of the ways of realizing in a concrete manner the Church’s character as communio." "Ethics in Communications" says: "A two-way flow of information and views between pastors and faithful, freedom of expression sensitive to the well being of the community and to the role of the Magisterium in fostering it, and responsible public opinion all are important expressions of ‘the fundamental right of dialogue and information within the Church’." The internet provides an effective technological means of realizing this vision. Here, then, is an instrument that can be put creatively to use for various aspects of administration and governance. Along with opening up channels for the expression of public opinion, we have in mind such things as consulting experts, preparing meetings, and practicing collaboration in and among particular churches and religious institutes on local, national, and international levels. Education and training are another area of opportunity and need. "Today everybody needs some form of continuing media education, whether by personal study or participation in an organized program or both. More than just teaching about techniques, media education helps people form standards of good taste and truthful moral judgment, an aspect of conscience formation. Through her schools and formation programs the Church should provide media education of this kind." Education and training regarding the internet ought to be part of comprehensive programs of media education available to members of the Church. As much as possible, pastoral planning for social communications should make provision for this training in the formation of seminarians, priests, religious, and lay pastoral personnel as well as teachers, parents, and students. Young people in particular need to be taught "not only to be good Christians when they are recipients but also to be active in using all the aids to communication that lie within the media...So, young people will be true citizens of that age of social communications which has already begun" - an age in which media are seen to be "part of a still unfolding culture whose full implications are as yet imperfectly understood." Teaching about the internet and the new technology thus involves much more than teaching techniques; young people need to learn how to function well in the world of cyberspace, make discerning judgments according to sound moral criteria about what they find there, and use the new technology for their integral development and the benefit of others. The internet also presents some special problems for the Church, over and above those of a general nature discussed in "Ethics in Internet," the document accompanying this one. (Editor’s note: We will be running this article in Communio after we finish running "The Church and the Internet.") While emphasizing what is positive about the internet, it is important to be clear about what is not. At a very deep level, "the world of the media can sometimes seem indifferent and even hostile to Christian faith and morality. This is partly because media culture is so deeply imbued with a typically postmodern sense that the only absolute truth is that there are no absolute truths or that, if there were, they would be inaccessible to human reason and therefore irrelevant." Among the specific problems presented by the internet is the presence of hate sites devoted to defaming and attacking religious and ethnic groups. Some of these target the Catholic Church. Like pornography and violence in the media, internet hate sites are "reflections of the dark side of a human nature marred by sin." And while respect for free expression may require tolerating even voices of hatred up to a point, industry self-regulation – and, where required, intervention by public authority – should establish and enforce reasonable limits to what can be said. The proliferation of web sites calling themselves Catholic creates a problem of a different sort. The proliferation of web sites calling themselves Catholic creates a problem of a different sort. As we have said, church-related groups should be creatively present on the internet; and well-motivated, well-informed individuals and unofficial groups acting on their own initiative are entitled to be there as well. But it is confusing, to say the least, not to distinguish eccentric doctrinal interpretations, idiosyncratic devotional practices, and ideological advocacy bearing a ‘Catholic’ label from the authentic positions of the Church. We suggest an approach to this issue below. Certain other matters still require much reflection. Regarding these, we urge continued research and study, including "the development of an anthropology and a theology of communication" – now, with specific reference to the internet. Along with study and research, of course, positive pastoral planning for the use of the internet can and should go forward. One area for research concerns the suggestion that the wide range of choices regarding consumer products and services available on the internet may have a spillover effect in regard to religion and encourage a ‘consumer’ approach to matters of faith. Data suggest that some visitors to religious web sites may be on a sort of shopping spree, picking and choosing elements of customized religious packages to suit their personal tastes. The "tendency on the part of some Catholics to be selective in their adherence" to the Church’s teaching is a recognized problem in other contexts; more information is needed about whether and to what extent the problem is exacerbated by the internet. Similarly, as noted above, the virtual reality of cyberspace has some worrisome implications for religion as well as for other areas of life. Virtual reality is no substitute for the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist, the sacramental reality of the other sacraments, and shared worship in a flesh-and-blood human community. There are no sacraments on the internet; and even the religious experiences possible there by the grace of God are insufficient apart from real-world interaction with other persons of faith. Here is another aspect of the internet that calls for study and reflection. At the same time, pastoral planning should consider how to lead people from cyberspace to true community and how, through teaching and catechesis, the Internet might subsequently be used to sustain and enrich them in their Christian commitment. * * * * * Running Through The Rain (Dan Alaimo’s cousin, Hal Place, sent this to us. Thanks Hal!) She had been shopping with her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful brown haired, freckle-faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the tops of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the Earth it had no time to flow down the spout. Drains in the nearby parking lot were filled to capacity and some were blocked so that huge puddles laced around parked cars. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Wal-Mart. We waited, some patiently, others irritated... because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I get lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child come pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day. Her voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in. "Mom, let’s run through the rain," she said. "What?" Mom asked. "Let’s run through the rain!" she repeated. "No, honey. We’ll wait until it slows down a bit." Mom replied. This young child waited about another minute and repeated "Mom, Let’s run through the rain." "We’ll get soaked if we do," Mom said. "No, we won’t, Mom" "That’s not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom’s arm. "This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?" "Don’t you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, ‘If God can get us through this, He can get us through anything!’" The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn’t hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes. Her Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child’s life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith. "Honey, you are absolutely right. Let’s run through the rain. If God let’s us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. I want to believe that some where down the road in life, Mom will find herself reflecting back on moments they spent together, captured like pictures in the scrapbook of her cherished memories. Maybe when she watches proudly as her daughter graduates. Or as her Daddy walks her down the aisle on her wedding day. She will laugh again. Her heart will beat a little faster. Her smile will tell the world they love each other. But only they will share that precious moment, when they ran through the rain believing that God would get them through. And, yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing. Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories. So, don’t forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories every day! I believe that friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. (As best as we can determine, this story, which is being forwarded around the internet by e-mail attributed to an "unknown author," is by Erma Bombeck. The one internet source we found with this attribution said she wrote it when she learned she had terminal cancer. We could not confirm this.) * * * * *
Retreat And Renewal (Here’s some welcome news from the St. Malachi Spirituality Committee.) Dear People of St. Malachi, As the St. Malachi Spirituality Committee, we want to take this opportunity to update you about our efforts and invite you to participate in an exciting new initiative we are offering, beginning this fall. As you know, the St. Malachi Spirituality Committee was established through the St. Malachi Looks to the Future: Rejoice and Renew initiative undertaken by both the Community and the Parish two years ago. More than a hundred Parish and Community members were interviewed and identified what they most found life-giving and valued most about their involvement at St. Malachi’s. They also identified areas in which they desired further growth and development. One of the five major areas identified was spiritual growth. In implementing St. Malachi Looks to the Future: Rejoice and Renew, the Community Council and Parish Council agreed that their respective spirituality people would meet and work jointly. As usual, a representative would report to their respective Councils. The St. Malachi Spirituality Committee began meeting in September 2001. During the past year, we undertook the following initiatives:
Now the new opportunity for Spiritual Renewal: One of the significant areas of interest identified by Malachi Looks to the Future: Rejoice and Renew was a retreat/renewal program at St. Malachi for adults. After much discussion and research, we have decided on We Are the Church written and developed by Rev. John Weigand, pastor of St. James Church, Lakewood. This renewal program is based on the concepts of Cursillo and Search and several Committee members are familiar with it. We have met with Fr. John Weigand, and he has a trained team ready to help us get started in this process. The first renewals, one for men and one for women, will be held on October 19-20 and November 9-10, 2002. Additional renewals will be held in early and late spring of 2003. Watch for details throughout the summer months and early next autumn. The St. Malachi Spirituality Committee consists of a group of dedicated and prayerful folk, both Parish and Community members. All are welcome to attend the meetings; our next meeting is Tuesday, June 11th at 7:00 p.m. in the rectory. Should you have any questions feel free to contact any committee member listed below. Sincerely, — The St. Malachi Spirituality Committee (The St. Malachi Spirituality Committee consists of Karen Duffy, Dick Gibbons, Cathy LaBianca Johnson, Therese Kastelic, Maura McLinden, Stephanie Pritts, Lois Samsel, Mary Jane Treichel, and Miriam Robinson.)
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